An Answer to an Online Unknown One!

Dear,

Thanks a lot and welcome to my heart. I am very sorry for not being clear. First of all I would like to explain something. we have to understand the core spirit of the words \'wife\' and \'friend\'...friend is very sensitive word...friend is a relationship between two persons either with a male or female and does not matter race, age, post, sex, color and ethnicity and anything. In friendship...nobody is senior or junior, greater or meaner, superior or inferior, richer or poorer, handsome or not (all these do not matter in friendship...both are equal and friendly, it is the pure or sacred relationship between two hearts, souls and spirits). Wife is a life partner for man or husband whereas husband is life partner for wife. It is like friendship... both are one element separately and it is the relationship with two persons of opposite sexes. Both are the bond of love but not of business or give and take of job and money. In such holy condition, both give to each other but both do not demand anything from each other...demand is give and take(One gives something to others and takes something from other: Suppose, I give Rs 20 to a shopkeeper and take goods...we can not buy relationship like goods) and is business but relationship/friendship is not business...relationship remains on top then other things come...if you give priority for other things, relationship will be spoiled...So first YOU and me (relationship and love, respect to each other)......

So far as the concern of your question is, I want the wife as my best friend. I want to see friendship in my wife. I hope I can find my friend in my wife, but I can not say I will meet perfect friend to be my wife...I think I am clear about wife and friendship....

With best regards
B.P. Aryal

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Can You Win the Fifth Grader?

Aug 19, '08


Think Positively?!


A Fifth Grader: If nobody marries my sister, is it my problem or yours??????????

A Fourth Grader: Please, answer me & think positively...it depends on your attitude...


A Third Grader: Are you smarter than the fifth grader? [Like in the TV reality show.]

A Fifth Grader: No, however powerful you are, you failed to search a man for your second sister...and you are still following me from behind the curtain in many disguises and you still claim that you are great...if you don't have any problem, why are you still following me in my whole life? you think you are great but others think you are selfish, mean and coward....but i still think you are great and good ...i bow down on your feet for your greatness.....you will be greatest if you invite me in your second sister's marriage ceremony....i am waiting for this....because i am dog and hungry, i will eat thrown food stuff in the party.....................
...................i respect and honor you too much............

All of them asked a journalist named Sonya Bhadra Sharma (name-changed for protecting his rights to individuality).

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It Is Hard to Believe but It Is Hard Truth

Jul 14, '08


: I have never seen such a brutal person in this world


It has not been one year, neither it has been two years, nor it has been five years, nor it has been 10 years. It has been 15 years, a team of KP [Krishna] Sharma has been following me from behind the curtain. It is too much. It is to say better that it is more than enough. He is troubling me unnecessarily, torturing me inhumanely. He seems to be very inhumane, vicious and unjust to me.

It seems it is such a fiction or a story which they can believe hardly. they who can not understand may think I have gone mad or crazy. Neither I am crazy nor the story is fantasy. This is the true story that I beheld and experienced in my life...either you believe it or not.

The only thing I did is I wanted to live in my own way and to be single rather than living with a bad girl as a life partner. He is too angry with me because i did not marry his sister whom I have never seen in this life. I cannot say how she is, good or bad. Relationship is made friendly, not brutally...The only problem with him is he has a family problem and marrying off his sister. If he has problem, he must tell and ask for help. Nobody will understand his problem without being told.

He warned me to destroy, finish, and ruin my life and block my each and every progress if I did not marry his sister. I have taken nothing from him nor I have harmed anybody in this life. However, he is punishing me for his family problem. If nobody is likely to accept his sister, it is not my mistake. The only ego he lives up is he is a journalist and has a big link and connection with each and every people. He can do anything whatever he likes. However, one is too powerful, one has any weakness in one's life. But he never admits his weakness. He is the lord of evilness and has kept on harming me continually for not marrying his invisible sister.

It is shocking that he has pretended that he is in the USA but staying in Kathmandu and he tends to sabotage and jeopardize my life from behind the curtain claiming that he has done nothing against me. He suggests me visiting psychiatrist for speaking truth. However, I would like to say that he, who claims being away by staying in Kathmandu, is sick and needs to consult the psychiatrist. He seems not to be in normal condition. He speaks false and claiming that he is speaking truth. It may be the psychiatric problem but I don't know what this actually is.

I have suffered too much, experiencing pains and tortures though i have not other problems. Nowadays, I am contemplating suicide rather to tolerate such injustice and live a miserable life. No one may believe in how he is following me and hurting and harming me from behind the curtain. I pary God for granting me death at this moment.

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Who Is Greater Between Them?

Feb 27, '08


A Dispute Between the Great and the Mean


MEAN: Please, don't intervene into my private life. I am about to go mad. Try never to interrupt my way of life. Let me live in peace and in my own way.

GREAT: Coward! ......[Very Vulgar Words]! Bastard! I'LL KILL YOU!

MEAN: Why are you angry with me? I have never harmed anybody in my life and never intend to.

GREAT: Sly guy! Limitless selfish! You will repent on it.

MEAN: What is your problem? Tell me directly as friend. I am not your enemy.

GREAT: I don't have any problems. Even if I have, I'll solve them by myself. Because I am very powerful and clever person. Do you want to see my power and to know how many contacts I have?

MEAN: Then, why are you torturing me a lot?

GREAT: I'll put full stop or an end to your success and progress if you leave my given job to you.

MEAN: Any problem can be solved if it is shared with each other and if you believe in friendship.

GREAT: You deceived me. There is sacrifice in friendship. You failed to understand it. My bosses say I am the great person.

MEAN: What do you want from me? I could not understand your problem. I'm not God to understand everything without being told it. Be transparent. Let's discuss the matter.

GREAT: I'll give you job and will you ...?

MEAN: One of your friend told me that you want to marry off your sister.

GREAT: Rude! Wild! You are not of my height and prestige. I regret of having friendship with you.

MEAN: I am ready to accept anything you propose. It is my responsibility to help you even if there is family problem.

GREAT: My sister is already married. You, mean! God bless you to lead a life without dreaming of having a wife in this life.

MEAN: You seem to be man of injustice, confusion and problems. I'm unable to understand you.

GREAT: You're in our grip or under the fist like a fly captured. I'm in the government media. I've connections and links with powerful persons and everywhere.I can block your paths of life. You will repent on it and live under pain and suffering or in hell. I can destroy your life. I'll bring tsunami into your life.

MEAN: Your family problem is yours. But you became my problem of life.I would honor and respect you, unless you troubled and harmed me. And I could help you and compromise for anything.

GREAT: I'll trouble, torture, and harm you on the ways sending vicious persons to beat you up psychologically. Can you tackle all the troubles and tortures I will attack on you. I'll compel you to take shelter in an ASYLUM.

MEAN: I don't need your given job. If you believe me I am determined to get married with your sister without any condition.

GREAT: I may spit on your mouth if you talk about my sister.

MEAN: It is better to die or to end any kind of relationships between you and me and say GOODBYE FOREVER.

GREAT: I'll continually jeopardize and sabotage your plans and life by following everywhere you head until you die. Even I can influence and dwarf your numbers achieved in the university examinations. Understand?

MEAN: I've decided to quit your given job and remain away from you. Give your sister to the job or anybody else OR give the job to your sister or anybody else. I would be extremely happy to attend your sister's marriage ceremony if you invite me.

GREAT: I'll pretend that I've gone to the USA but will remain underground here and I'll resort to finish your life from behind the curtain. OK!

MEAN: THANKS A LOT! YOU ARE REALLY the GREAT! I'm sorry for all of my mistakes.

The MEAN MAN thought and believed that anybody would marry his sister whom he has never seen in his life because the GREAT MAN could manage anything in this world. However, the GREAT is still following the MEAN and harming everything whatever the latter plans to do. The secrecy or hidden truth, the MEAN IMAGINES, is that nobody in this world is likely to accept the GREAT's sister.

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Relationship is Made of only Two Sides

Feb 06, '08


Relationship is Made of only Two Sides


There were some people debating on relationship and its value.

I was witnessing the event and captured the dialogues in such a way.

First: Sometimes relationship is made of by force and power.

Second: May be. But I think relationship is a matter of compromising with the problems.

Third: No. It is the pure spiritual and divine matter between or among the beings.

Fourth: It is not possible with power and job but possible with love and humanity. It is not made of single party or side.

Fifth: I have a problem that I want to marry off my sister to a being.

Sixth: It is better to give your sister to a bulldog if you fail to understand the humanity.

Seventh: I also want to marry a dog girl because I am unable to understand another person.

First: Then, both of you should compromise ultimately.

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A Sublime Moment of Love with an Stranger

May 12, '07


A Sublime Moment of Love with an Stranger


Just some hours ago, i caught a bus bound to Kathmandu from a terai district of Nepal. Many buses were traveling to Kathmandu like many people are visiting this place. I chose a bus in a blue color, which attracted me more not because there were acquainted faces in the bus but because my mood always goes with spiritual world.

It was only a co-incidence. I entered the bus. There was only one seat lying vacant at the last back row of the seats. I took my seat right behind the seats of two ladies.

It is not better to disclose my inner feelings about other people, specially about females. But what i am doing is only the spontaneous flowing of a beautiful moment in course of my journey to Kathmandu, the capital city of Nepal.

Others might think that I always like to write about females. Yes, it is true that females are comparatively superior being in the universe of creation, so I choose to write about them.

One of my hands touched hair of one lady in front of me. Her hair was so smooth, so silky and so sweet as if it was the butter cream pasted in a cake. She turned behind. i was afraid of her and my innocent actions of my fingers. I thought, "I am sorry for it."

But she smiled in a way that she was my acquainted friend. Her smile was like a rainbow on the Autumn evening. She was in red, blue, pink and yellow colored dress. There was a petal of rose flower on her face, fragrance of lily and beauty of innocent merry gold. "Mom, will you taste this piece of snack," she said to the woman beside her. They were talking about Butwal, her brother who is a school student and the fare of bus that was illogical for them.

Unknowingly, my fingers pushed her hair again. I was terribly afraid of her. And she told me, "I am sorry." I said nothing because i don't like to be more formal.

Again, i touched her hands and she did not object. She could not stay unmoved. She was turning left and right, and turning back to me with her hands on top of seat behind her. I touched her fingers, which were like tulip tenders. i caught her one of fingers and she was not angry with me but playful to the situation. She winked her eyes and told me, "Will you like this?" She pointed to the lines written on the window screen of the bus. There was written--YOU ARE THE FAIRY OF BEYOND HORIZON. "It's nice," I said. She smiled.

The bus was still running. We were closer and closer being playful with friendly spirit and impulse of emotions. We traveled for four hours with very joyful moments. Those were few moments among many delightful moments we spent together on the bus. I had potato chips on the bus and she took instant noodles and biscuit. i offered her my chips. She said, "No, thanks!"

Just after we finished eating snacks, she said to me, "You are so greedy. You ate alone." I smiled and she laughed her belly.

I said, "I am getting down at the next stop."
She said, "Bye!" I said, "Tata!"

Just before getting departed, she told me her name. "I am Ayushma Poudel (Chhetry)." My father is Chhetry and Mom is also so. But my grandmother is Bramhin. "I am four year old and i read in Nursery," she told me in a jolly mood with Nightingale voice and oceanic eyes.

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A Letter to a Disguised Friend

May 12, '07


A Letter to a Disguised Friend


Dear Joy,

Hug with love of friendship!

I am very much disappointed and it has been very difficult for me to endure pains caused by the very person from behind the curtain.

I think he has unnecessarily harmed me in my life. I thought and believed he would not harmed me anything because i have never harmed anybody nor deceived anybody else. I expressed, "He would do nothing for me as i have not harmed anything of him." But he felt challenged from my simple and plain statement emanated from my heart of belief. It is an irony he took it otherwise. He never told me his problem seriously nor directly nor friendly but blamed me for deceiving him. I have experienced extreme condition of injustice. I requested him through mail to forgive me as a friend if i had made any mistakes in my life. I was ready to sacrifice everything for him if he had told me directly.

I am terribly victimized by the misunderstanding of him and getting punished for his problems. He is too much angry with me but never tells me what his problem is. I am shocked from it. He is too powerful, big, greater and influential, who does not need any of my helps. I have never expected anything from him, neither his money nor his power to get job for me nor his sister to live with. I wish he could have relationship of his sister with bigger, richer, greater, influential, better, more handsome, social, cultured and civilized person. I believe he will get whatever he desires and wants. i am nobody and nothing for him. However, i expect from him only not to obstruct, hinder or ill-recommend me and my attempts to live in my own ways. It will be enough for me to live.

I am not a person to harm others. If i cannot live in peace, i can commit suicide but i am always against fighting the friends. Whatever he has done wrong with me, i forgive him but never go against him. I want to be only true human being but not the devil.

What would you do if you were my friend-turned-foe?

best regards
...prasad...

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Speechless Moment: A Sense of Isolation

Apr 19, '07


Speechless Moment: A Sense of Isolation


I said, "Bye".
She said, "OK".
Then we departed for our destinations. She headed towards south and I got up a bus traveling east. We were at the junction of Butwal, business city of central Nepal about two couple of days ago. People were coming and going to their directions from the crossroad.

It seemed the sun was angry with the people who were unaware of scorching heat. It was not too hot but the temperature was above 35 degree Celsius. I was on the road, the road of my destination and destiny.

It looked the trees were running. The bus was full of sounds playing music. In fact, the bus was running and my mind inside the bus was running back to the history of few hours ago.

The place from where I caught the bus was hilly, scenery and fascinatingly serene. The wind was blowing mildly. people were on the opposite and supportive directions respectively. I entered into the bus and looked for a vacant seat. All the front seats were not empty. I went to the behind seats. There was an empty seat along with a girl, who was looking downside. I could not see her face. But her dress was neat and pink color with embroidery. I took the vacant seat.

The bus was moving and heading to its destination. I was silent and she was also silent. I wanted to know about her because I thought we were together by the seats. I wanted to ask, "Sister, can we introduce each other? Where are you going?" But, I pondered upon my thinking and said without uttering voice, "It will be meaner to ask anything about an unknown lady. Why should I ask her for anything when we only met on the bus?" I sometimes peered and she also did so but not at a time.

I remembered one of my friend-turned-foe who might assume that I was so rude, savage, and wild while I was afraid of talking to a human being friendly traveling together. I thought, "It's not necessary to be so because I believe in humanity. If she falls under any problems, I am ready to help her." However, there was not such a coincidence.

She said nothing to me and I was similar to her. More than three hours passed in the same manner. The bus arrived at the junction from where we departed.
Before getting down from the bus, she asked me, "Where are you getting down?"
"At the junction," I said.
"I am too at the same place," she said. "I am going to visit my sister's home but I am not familiar with this place."
"Let's go together to the cross road, and phone your sister to receive you," I said to her.
She phoned her sister and found she was not at home. I came to know from hearing her that her nephew or niece received the phone. They were small and could not take her to their home, she said. "Can you help me to reach there?"

We went at the crossroad and stopped a bus and i told the bus helper to help her getting down by the F.M. station of the town. The helper said, "It is my pleasure to do so. Some people don't say as clearly as you said and later complain us."

Though I am strong feminist, I always hesitate to communicate frankly because I think, "People will take me as a lusty man if I talk or speak to the opposite sexes." However, there was a spiritual communication between us that made us pleasant.

Neither she asked my name nor I asked her name. The traveling is still to continue but it is not certain whether we will meet again or not. "I don't expect to meet her again," I believe.

[This is an allusion to my friend's sister dedicated to Him.]

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A Tale of a Trouble Caused by Friend VS Foe

Apr 07, '07




...FROM PREVIOUS PART...

Dear Joy,

Pleasing to read your mail regarding the details of life perspective.

Really, I am more than hurt. I believed him as my friend but he enjoyed destroying me in the guise of friend. I am very confused between friend as a foe or foe as a friend.

I am still surprised how a friend can destroy his friend but I saw him doing so--he claimed he was my friend and sabotaged and jeopardized my life in the veil of friendship...He wanted, i thought, me to marry his sister whom i had never seen in my life but never tried to make us meet. How can I believe that he was true to this matter and he was my good friend.

To be powerful means does not necessary to be good. He is very powerful person and he planned a grand design to make me alone in this world and hitting me, hurting me blocking me from behind the curtain===he hurt me more than i suffered.==Now i feel and experience i am alone=i am extremely hurt--it has been very difficult to live more==Do you still think he was my friend who destroyed my life for not marrying his invisible sister? I am surprised by what he is doing, if i am not wrong. What will he get by troubling me too much and tending to destroy me?

My life is full of pains and sufferings and no way to live in this world. If he will be happier and achieve success and success more when i am ruined, i pray God to trouble me much more because friend's happiness will be my pleasure

best regards with love
... ;;; ...


...ANOTHER PART...

Dear Intimate,

My happiness knew no boundaries when i got such a friend like u. The God is there from where He loves me too much. I am quite inspired by your allusion of mother's pain and love to her sons. Now, i can feel i can endure whatever pain for my mother's happiness. But I disagree with you to take revenge with my foe as a friend or friend as a foe because I am never against justice and humanity. If i have never harmed anything of anybody else, it is beyond my imagination to harm my friend and all.

However, i cannot be positive with that very being under the veil of friendship who sabotaged my life. He only believes in power and felt challenged when i believed him he would not harm me any way. i thought he would not harm me anything but he took it as my challenge boasting upon the power. You can't imagine how powerful, mischievous, cunning, shrewd, sly and tricky he is. He might be under the full of pains and it is his problem not mine but he does not have any rights to destroy my life. Do you think it is a justice to punish others for his own problem and weakness? His problem is his problem. If he wants to solve it or wants or expects some cooperation from his friends or me, he must tell me directly and propose for help. I could do any kind of help to him, if he has been simple and easy. How can i see his internal pain or problem without telling me anything? Is it my mistake not to know his problem, what do u think my friend? And now he has been continually attacking me blaming me for not helping him as friend. Can he mend broken mirror similar to the relationship? If he dares to mend the relationship, he must take initiation with correcting his past mistakes and wrong doings under the play of super power. If I hurt and destroy you, can you still take me as earlier as before, suppose, we were friends? i feel i am very simple and straightforward person with compassion.

Contrary to me, he is super-powerful and not a man of understanding humanity but only of power. He enjoys destroying others. If i can, i will never harm him because i am not like him. Ending friendship with him is enough for him as a punishment. I am not demon or devil to follow him and take revenge with such robotic hearts. One day, he will certainly realize that if he has not harmed his friend under the play of power, his friend (me) would certainly help him and hug him with love and humanity. It is not my job to make him understand me how simple kind of person i am.

However, he is almost under the line of human being and near to a mean and clever King. Do you want to know about his deceptive tricks? He hatched a plan of staying in the USA by staying in Kathmandu, changing his residential location and continuing his office by the night? And he wants to convince me that he has not done anything against me because he reportedly claims that he is not in the country or town. Can you understand now what kind of person he is? Is he true to humanity or friendship?

When I want to begin my life in new ways, he creates obstacles and obstruction everywhere. I remember his one saying to me---"...will stop your every progress and bring tsunami in your life because you (me) did not do what I (he) wanted...". Now, evaluate yourself, what kind of person he is. If he needs my help, he could propose or ask me directly and friendly and i could help him or sacrifice everything for him as part of value of friendship. I could help him anything if he had asked me directly.

Now, can you understand me what kind of person i am? How can i understand others' problems without being revealed it? I am not God to know everything about of others...

I hope u will understand me well

Love from
...;;;...


...NEXT PART...

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